At the Hospital

I sat with my swollen toe elevated as a pretty nurse walked by. Her back side was so captivating I stopped short in the middle of the sentence I was speaking to my husband. He understood. He was just as speechless as I was.

While my eyes were glued on her green scrubs another perfectly round ass bounced up to hers. I looked up from both spectacular views and saw two very, very pretty nurses chattering with each other. As they rushed down the hospital corridor I watched their scrubs swish side to side. Tiny waists carried bouncing booty’s through the swinging doors leading to the next corridor. Before I could look back at my husband’s face a nurse with super sexy, just plain kissable, lip glossed shiny lips, bright, clear skin & sexy eyes came down the hall. She looked up from her device and smiled directly at me. It was one of those ‘I think you’re sexy’ sultry smiles and she was smiling at me!!!

I was frozen.

I had no idea what her body looked like until I shook off the spell of her smile. Nice boobs, a little baby bulge thick hips, round butt, nice thick legs passed by. Her perfectly round, thick plum scrubs bounced down the same hallway I’d just unglued my eyes from.

I looked at my husband and said “What the hell?” I was perplexed. Almost every single nurse that went by had a gorgeous face, nice hair, bouncy breasts n booty. From thick waists to skinny waists, tall and short the hospital was fully staffed with sexy sirens!

I’m actually a Health Care Management major looking for my first health care career position this fall.

I know the first place I’m applying to! 🙂

Just kidding…kinda.

-Jay Dee, Founder 

Fall Fashion!! Yaaaay


Planning a new wardrobe is always exciting! 🙂

As a  New York Fashionista it’s mandatory to stay one step ahead of, or right in step with, New York Fashion.

This year I’ve decided to do minimal forecast and trending research. Just enough to stay within the color lines.

From there I’m taking the approach I love best.

Vintage, Retro, anything unique anything that reflects ME.


From the age of 16 I’ve shopped thrift stores all over my city due to a few reasons:

  • Quality pieces at much lower prices
  • I’m a label whore who loves a bargain
  • Uniqueness. I hate to see someone wearing what I’m wearing
  • I love to show off my personality through my clothes

The worst thing ever in Fashion is the Clone Effect. Everyone looks alike.

  • Everyone has the same hair styles
  • Everyone has the same swag
  • Everyone is wearing the same labels
  • The same everything everywhere!!!

Fashion slaves. Ugh. Makes my skin tremble. 

I am bold. I am unique, I am different.

I do follow trends to some degree but I always, always, always put my own unique spin on trending fashion.

I am me and there is not one person on this earth that is JUST like me, though we may be somewhat alike.

My twist is just fine with me 🙂

I know you felt the passion in those sentences!

That’s the same passion with which I set a budget each season and hit the stores running.

I pull pieces, plan outfits, scan labels, and make it work on a budget.

I’ve been doing it all my life. 

Seasonal shopping is a true quarterly highlight in my life.

It’s a new season!

Time to revamp, revise and be creative.

What Fall Fashion ideas do you have in mind?

Comment below!

Don’t forget to keep an eye on our Pinterest Fashion & Home Decor Boards.

I’ll be adding Fall Fashion as I browse the net for this season’s wardrobe ideas for myself, my family & my home!

-Jay Dee, Founder

Fall is Falling Upon Us…

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When I think of Autumn or Fall, I think of warm soups, chilly evenings, vegetables, herbs and roots.

During the colder months I love to spend a large amount of time in my kitchen preparing immune system boosting, healthy, hearty, warming and love filled meals. 

I prepare herbal tea blends, super hearty soups and the healthiest of harvest meals.

I delve into aromatherapy scents to make the mouth water such as Apple Pie and Pumpkin spice.

I even blend and boil my own potpourri on colder days to keep the house feeling warm and smelling fresh.

I’m a summer baby and love the summer months but I embrace a love/hate relationship with Autumn and Winter.

I suffer physical pain during the colder months in my bones and muscles despite my healthy lifestyle.

When I think of Autumn and Winter I don’t think of those things.

I think of the earth giving birth to all the lovely herbs, roots and vegetables our family will nourish our bodies with during the colder months.

I think of cable knits, tights, felt over coats and corduroy skirts.

I think it’s time to change my home decor prepare to hunker down for the winter.

I see romantic fireplaces and cozy nights with my husband…

and my girlfriend. 

Hopefully I’ll find Her.

-Jay Dee, Founder

Back 2 School…All Those Sexy Teachers & Moms!

I don’t have school age children. The children that reside in my home are of legal drinking age.

What I do have is a dog. A dog who demands to be walked early in the morning and in the afternoon.

While walking my dog I see the most gorgeous women taking their children to school and picking them up.

I see women who appear to be teachers & other school personnel parking their cars in the school parking lot, walking toward the structure that holds our children’s future. I dig their fashion, their shapes and all those hot 2014 professional looks!

I see moms with hips spread from the little ones running behind them. Fat behinds of all varieties jiggling down the sidewalk. Pretty faces laugh and greet each other. Full breasts bounce in sweaters and blazers down the block.

The BiWife inside of me wonders how many of these women are married like me? How many of these women are housewives? How many of those women are Bi Wives and how many are just single and bisexual? How many of these women would be appalled to find out I was even  having these thoughts as they passed me and complimented me on my beautiful puppy.

I wonder am I perverted for wondering about these sexy moms and hot faculty?

I wonder how would I deal with it if my kids teacher was super hot and I was crushing on her? (never had that situation…)

What if my kid has a friend who’s mom is really sexy…and flirtatious? (never had that situation either…)

Sheesh, the scenarios are endless.

I’ve contemplated a thousand ways to approach one of these women. In the end I never have.

I find it offensive for a man or a woman to approach someone while they are with their children.

Thank God for business cards, lol. *The BiWives Club Members will be issued 250 free business cards along with.*

In any case, I’m not perverted. I’m just a woman that loves women.

I find myself in situations with other women and it’s sometimes awkward but something I’ve learned how to deal with.

I am not attracted to all women in the least.

I do have a type you know, who doesn’t?

Bi Wives & moms who have to deal with the social pressures of motherhood I’d like to hear from you. It’s your turn to voice off and tell us your side of life.

Do you have an awkward situation you’ve encountered you would like to share with us?

Maybe a situation you’d like input on?

Comment below or on our Facebook Page, comment right below BiWife Moms post.

-Jay Dee, Founder


The Facebook Group is for readers/followers of BiWifeLife & The BiWives Club on WordPress.

The group is SECRET and by invitation only.

Add me on Facebook. Although it appears to be a personal page this is the page I’ve created for all BiWives & their Supporters to connect with each other. Introduce yourself on my wall  Tell us a bit about you, who you are, where your from, etc. Please limit your introduction to no more than 150 words. I will delete full stories. Sorry. A Synopsis will do.

After some time and participation on your part you will receive an invite to BiWifeLife & The BiWives Club Secret Group on Facebook. I do reserve the right to be selective for the safety of the community as a whole. Not everyone is kind and supportive, not everyone has the same agenda. I don’t want any ugliness in the Group therefore participation and time will tell if membership is right for you. 

To have your full story featured on BiWifeLife: Send a picture along with your story for consideration to BiWifeLife is promoting TRANSPARENCY. It’s time we are heard, our issues faced.

If you can share here, you can connect there. Don’t be shy. Comment on each other’s introductions, ask questions, FACEBOOK IS YOUR ‘FORUM’ for discussion on topics you read here on WordPress.

DON’T FORGET: If you are using a name other than the one you use here on Facebook, inbox me your name here and the words that best describe you: BiWife, BiHusband, BiSupporter, BiWife Kid, etc., this way I know where the friend request is coming from.

Thanks guys and this is one step further in establishing a community of BiWife connections.

This September we will be holding our first BiWives Club ground meetings in New York City and Washington, DC.

If YOU would like to become a volunteer Chapter Leader of BiWifeLife & The BiWives Club email

-Jay Dee, Founder


Article: Anna Paquin’s Bisexuality for Dummies

Anna Paquin’s Bisexuality for Dummies

I came across this article while surfing for info on the upcoming series finale of True Blood, airing this evening on HBO. It’s a pretty interesting article about being in a committed relationship/marriage while being bisexual. I had to forward it to one of my friends, who just this weekend commented that since I am getting married, I no longer have to worry about being known as bisexual.


That’s not true at all. I am and always will be bisexual, no matter my relationship status. Maybe this article will shed some light on that for her.

Hope you enjoy the article. And if any of you watch True Blood, let’s live tweet the finale together! You can find me on Twitter @StephElise.

-Stephanie Elise, Contributing Author

Birthday Freebies – Free Birthday Stuff

Birthday Freebies – Free Birthday Stuff.

Well, today is my birthday ladies n gents 🙂

I’ve been blessed to see X amount of years on this earth and I am grateful.

It’s interesting what incentives come with birthdays, weddings, anniversaries and other milestones in life.

When my husband and I got married we were given so many little incentives from our meal to our hotel that weekend.

I decided to just briefly google what perks could I get for being born if we were given perks for getting married 🙂

Turns out companies want to keep you as a loyal customer so they like to treat you special on your birthday.

Something worth checking out.

-Jay Dee, Founder


For those of you who don’t know our Facebook struggle here it is briefly.

I opened a BiWifeLife Organization page on Facbook, a like page essentially.

I tried to open a group within Our ‘Like’ page only to find out that is not possible.

After building numbers on Our ‘Like’ page ultimately the page had to come down.

Facebook doesn’t allow groups to be made within an Organization page, only personal pages.

After waiting 2 weeks for Our original ‘Like’ page to be deactivated I’ve opened a new personal Facebook Account.

I tried to open a group after establishing the new account only to find, I’ve got to have friends to invite to the

group in order to start the group! 

BiWifeLife & The BiWives Club will be a Closed Group.

I need all of Our readers who would like to participate in the BiWifeLife Facebook Group to please add me as a friend on Facebook HERE. This is a PERSONAL ACCOUNT.

From my ‘friends’ list you will ADDED TO THE CLOSED GROUP once I receive enough ‘friends’ to open a group.

I need at least 10 friends to create the group!!!

Add me NOW so I can post the link to OUR NEW FB GROUP!!!

After you send a friend request send me a message with the word: BiWife, BiWife Husband, BiWife Fiance, Engaged BiWife, BiWife Supporter, BiWife Familly Member, whichever word best describes your place in a BiWife Life. (This way I’ll know the request came from a BiWifeLife reader.)

I will add you as a friend and once I get enough ‘friends’ I’ll send you an invite to the group.

It’s a lot I know but it’s the way Facebook is set up.

It’s not a perfect platform. 😦 

The effort to establish a group is to service the readers who regularly communicate with each other and to those who may wish to reach out to particular readers

Support our growth.

Add me so you can comment, connect, suggest here then head on over to FB to converse!

Thanks and look forward to talking to you guys in Facebook!

-Jay Dee, Founder