The Community Has Spoken

I have heard you.

I’d like to state for the record I am NOT a WordPress guru nor am I a true techie (yet) :D.

I am a full time entrepreneur, wife, mother and student of the Health Sciences with a heavy curriculum.

This blog was created because within being all of those things I am one thing when I stand alone.

A bisexual woman.

I’m a bisexual woman who has experienced a lifetime of relationships with men and women, while single, engaged and married. I have been engaged to 3 women in my lifetime, married twice before my current marriage.

I love women. I love men.

I was a little girl that dreamed of Prince Charming & Princess Perfect.

polyamory rings

Life was not that simple in the least.

Things have gotten hairy & have been blissful.

A lot of lessons were learned along the way.

Mostly I’ve dealt with my life and lifestyle within myself trying to figure out if I was crazy for dreaming of an ideal life as a bisexual human being. Seems there is no ideal, a husband and a wife.

Just one, or the other.

Women problems, men problems, societal problems, spiritual dilemma’s, all kinds of problems arise all because I can’t love just one gender.

So, here we are.


At present I am married to a man but still, truly bisexual. My husband is loving and supportive but my circle of friends is small due to the demands of my life.

The search for a new girlfriend since my husband and I broke up with our mutual girlfriend had me on the brink of insanity! I live in NYC, how hard could it be to find a good woman to share my life with!!!? Sheesh.

Much harder than I thought.

So I started this blog.

Iย wanted it to be a place not to just share my thoughts and feelings but to connect with others, hear from others who dealt with similar issues.

After 2 years and approaching 70k views I’ve watched this space grow into something that truly tugs at my heart strings. You all make me cry so often with your stories & experiences.

Those who know me know I’m super sensitive and regularly your comments have tears running down my eyes.

Even my family knows I must be checking my blog when they see the tears start, lol.

I just wish I could bless us all with the ideal marriage for our biselves!

Within hundreds of comments I tend to see one recurring comment from so many various readers- can we make this a forum of some sorts?

Ask and ye shall receive. ๐Ÿ˜€

School’s out at the end of this week. I’ve decided to take a semester off to focus on my business and this blog.

During the next few months I plan to devote A LOT of time to evolving BiWifeLife.

It’s much overdue. -_-

In the meantime keep browsing, commenting and connecting.

I hear you all and a BiWifeLife forum is one of the FIRST things I’ll be adding.


May God bless you and your marriage with peace, happiness, tranquility, longevity and lots of love!!!

-Jay Dee

2 thoughts on “The Community Has Spoken

    1. Sure you can hang out here. ๐Ÿ™‚ I plan to open a BiHusband’s page for boyfriends, fiance’s and husbands who are bisexual and married ๐Ÿ™‚
      You are not alone and I know first hand you guys have just as many challenges as we do ๐Ÿ™‚
      Please, feel free to browse, comment, connect and suggest. Also I have other resources for you. Please email me at
      Welcome and we’re honored to have you!!!

      -Jay Dee, Founder


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