If your internet private browsing history was somehow publicized to the entire world, would you be embarrassed by your porn searches?
If your sexual trysts were exposed for all to see, would you cringe as the details were told?
It’s something I think about, and honestly I think a person will like what they like and do what makes them feel good. Whether it’s something I’d do or find agreeable shouldn’t matter.
What matters is nobody was hurt (unless they wanted to be, lol), no laws were broken or rights violated, and everyone involved enjoyed themselves.
I think what’s private should stay private, but if exposed, it is what it is.
I am not one person. I have several faces. I am not ashamed of this very real fact.
One is for the public, one is for behind closed doors, one is for the family.
Not everything is for everyone or every situation.
I don’t know how one should feel if exposed.
What I do know is that I have a deep understanding of the psychology of sex through studying scholarly articles, prior school courses, and plain old human observation & experience.
I know why I like what I like sexually ,and I’m okay with that. I understand the vast majority of fetishes and kinks out there, and I say “to each his own.”
I really don’t care what folks think, not to say I’m immune to emotions.
I’m sure I’ll feel something, but I’m almost positive it won’t be shame.
Maybe a bit embarrassed because private is private but hey, it’s just sex!
-Jay Dee, Founder